No Doubt..!!

Healing..!!

True Celebration should come from your life, in your life.

True celebration should come from your life, in your life. And true celebration cannot be according to the calendar, that on the first of November you will celebrate. Strange, the whole year you are miserable and on the first of November suddenly you come out of misery, dancing. Either, the misery is false, or the first of November is false; both cannot be true. And once the first of November has gone, you are back in your dark hole, everybody in his misery, everybody in his anxiety.

Life should be a continual celebration, a festival of lights the whole year round. Only then can you grow up, can you blossom.

-Osho

There is no time better than Now..!!

Choose someone out of Love..!!

Educate your Heart too..!!

I can Trust Myself...!!

Feel Strength in the Experience of Pain..!!

"People are afraid of themselves, of their own reality; their feelings most of all. People talk about how great love is, but that’s bullshit. Love hurts. Feelings are disturbing. People are taught that pain is evil and dangerous. How can they deal with love if they’re afraid to feel? 

Pain is meant to wake us up. People try to hide their pain. But they’re wrong. Pain is something to carry, like a radio. You feel your strength in the experience of pain. It’s all in how you carry it. That’s what matters. Pain is a feeling. Your feelings are a part of you. Your own reality. If you feel ashamed of them, and hide them, you’re letting society destroy your reality. You should stand up for your right to feel your pain."

— Jim Morrison

Be Gentle to All..!!

If people looked at the stars each night, they'd live their lives a lot differently...!!

Celebrate Life..!!

Conscious-Subconscious (5:95 )...!!

God can fix anything..!!

Have you ever witnessed a skilled craftsman going into an old broken down home and restoring it into something fabulous? 

God is the master of restoration, taking the broken and damaged and making them beautiful. :) :) 

Suffering sometimes lead to Awakening..!!

Just to Correct your Mind..!!

Learn what U need to Know..!

Self Care...!!

Symptoms of Enlightenment..!!

Any event will continue to happen to us until we learn what we need to from it..!!

What matters..!!

A gentle reminder for all the beautiful folks..!!

"We like to pretend that high heels don’t hurt our feet, and that we always look as good as we do when we’re wearing make-up and our prettiest clothes. We like to tell ourselves that not every guy is the same, and that maybe he’ll change if we’re patient with whatever life throws our way. We hide behind smiles and mask ourselves in laughter while thinking maybe it’ll be enough to convince ourselves we’re really that happen; we tell ourselves we really need to be that happy.

But sometimes, life isn’t okay, and it’s okay to not be okay. It’s okay to hurt, and sometimes, we just need a reminder that we’re only human. And as miraculous of a blessing as that is, it can still break you down, leave a mess, shake you up, and confuse you until you don’t understand what it means anymore. You’re going to hurt, you’re going to fall, and you’re going to make mistakes that - sometimes - you even know better than to allow yourself to make. But that’s okay.

Sometimes, you just need a reminder that it’ll all be okay; here’s your reminder, beautiful. Hold on for better days, keep that gorgeous smile where we can see it, because I can promise you things won’t always be this way."

You know what is the sweetest time of the day?

 It is when you pray. Why? Because you are talking to the One who loves you most.

Life is a constant battle for survival. And as we grow older, the rules change on daily basis. Our mission is not to escape but to survive and win. Not just deal with triumph but to deal with failures and mistakes. Not to run away from fear but to master it. It takes courage to keep on fighting. 

So if you feel like the rules have shifted one step higher, deal with it and never surrender. God is with you. 

"Even though I don’t know at times which direction I’m heading in, nor the outcome of the path life takes me on, I do know God will be there to guide me through."

You decide who you become..!

It’s not what’s happening to you now or what has happened in your past that determines who you become. Rather, it’s your decisions about what to focus on, what things mean to you, and what you’re going to do about them that will determine your ultimate destiny.

"What matters now won’t matter soon; the truly important thing is that you are alive, and that you have the capacity to do absolutely anything with this beautiful, crazy coincidence of being on this earth."

Forever doesn’t always lasts..!!

“Don’t dwell on the past. Your history can’t be erased, but your future has yet to be written. Make the most of what’s going to happen instead of worrying about what you can’t change.

Don’t waste your time being sad, because you’re wasting away moments in which you could be happy. It’s taken me awhile, but i’m learning that letting go of the past is a good thing. It doesn’t mean forgetting, it just means moving on. And you can’t enjoy the present when you’re stuck in the past.

Don’t cry for what might have been, don’t live in the past. It was supposed to be forever? Lift your head and dry your tears, forget about yesterday. We had the time of our life, but we must move on. Let it fade away.”

Soch..its all in the mind..!!

Har fasad ki jad teri yeh soch hai..

Ke soch ke yeh socha..

Jo socha kyun na hua..

Honay par fir yeh socha

Jo hua kyun na socha…?

Har pal jo jaal boonay..teri yeh soch hai…

Hoti haiwaan kabhi…

Leti yeh jaan tabhi…

Banke shaitaan woh toh…

Bechey imaan kabhi…

Shaatir jo chaal chaley..teri yeh soch hai…

Ke badle tu soch jo…Tera yeh waqt ho…

Apni hi soch se… Tu toh sashakt ho…

Banade ya bigadey tujhe…teri yeh soch hai…

Karde lachaar tujhe teri yeh soch hai…

Aur pal mein sanwaare woh bhi…

Teri yeh soch hai….

Haalaaton ke aagey jab tu majboor hota hai….

Neeyat ko badlne ka dastoor hota hai..

Karle tab apni soch pe tu kaabu…

Sambhal jaayega teri zindagi ka tarazu….

Umeedon ko jo kaayam rakhey teri yeh soch hai…

Jeet ki udaan liye teri yeh soch hai…

Duniya jo badal daley…. teri yeh soch hai….

Live and Learn-Life..!!

No matter what circumstances life throws in ur direction, u have to believe that U can handle it.

It's really about our perception. There's no such thing as a bad circumstance. All those things we perceive as bad are actually real growing experience in life. You have to see that everything that happens to U has come into ur life for a reason. 

We are challenged in life bcoz that's what life is all about. Life's about how we deal with those challenges.

Don't Go with life, instead GROW with Life..:)

Pain - is transitional !!

“Because he has been a major part of your life, of course you’ll miss him; it’s perfectly normal. It’s like getting a tooth pulled out; after the dentist pulls it out you’re relieved. But how many times does your tongue run itself over the spot where the tooth once was, probably a hundred times a day? Just because it was hurting you does not mean you don’t notice it. It leaves a gap, and sometimes you see yourself missing it terribly. It’s going to take awhile, but it takes time. Should you have kept the tooth? No, because it was causing you pain. Pulling the tooth was the right decision, but it’s going to hurt.”

Faith and Patience..!!

Whatever happens, happens for something good..!!

Sometimes, life hurts you exactly where it pains the most. Your greatest fear, your worst nightmare comes true. You cry in pain, and ask life WHY it did what it did to you. Life can't speak, but what it wants to do is to make you rise above your fear, your pain and emerge stronger. It is only when people face their strongest fears that they bring out the best in themselves. 

Trust life, it doesn't hate you, just loves you in ways you can perhaps never understand.

It happens..!

I genuinely believe the first person you give your heart to is special.

They get your innocent vulnerability, before you've been hurt enough to feel bitter and before you learn to guard yourself from the world.

They see at your softest, most raw. You are, easy.

You fall simply, without a single care. You love like it is the only thing worth doing and you hope like nothing is impossible.

So the first time someone really breaks your heart - it is going to hit you like a tidal wave and knock the breath out of you. If you don't feel like you're dying, it probably isn't love.

You'll fall for someone again. It just won't be the same. But you know, that's just life: two things never happen the same way. It doesn't mean it won't be just as good.

What You Believe Is How You Perceive - By: Ryan Pearson

Perception is reality. The way you perceive people, places and circumstances in your life, will become your truth. 

There is a great quote by Dr. Wayne Dyer that says - "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.". I believe that quote sums the message of this article up perfectly. 

Whatever you focus on expands. If you meet someone and decide to focus on their negative or unattractive qualities, then you will begin to notice more and more negative and unattractive qualities. If, however, you meet someone and choose to focus on their positive and attractive qualities you will notice more of their attractive qualities, and they will suddenly become a very attractive person to you. 

It is our choice how we choose to see and perceive things. We always get to choose how we see a person, place or a situation. Our perception determines our experience. 

Life is all about perception. If you look at a homeless person, for example, and you think to yourself 'how disgusting', 'he/she is so dirty','why don't they get a job, like everyone else', 'what a loser', etc........ 

Then you will see a filthy disgusting person that is below you. 

If you look at that same homeless person, and you think to yourself, 'I send that person love', 'I pray that they find food today', 'I wonder what situation occurred in their life to put them there', 'How may I serve that person', 'I admire their peacefulness', 'I respect their humanity', 'I am one with their spirit', etc...... 

Then all of a sudden they look completely different to you.You see their inner beauty, you respect them as your brother/sister, you see their humanity, you feel empathy and compassion, you see that beautiful Soul as one with yourself. 

When you change the way you look at people, places or circumstances in your life, they will change. You have the power to choose to see through the eyes of anger and fear, or through the eyes of compassion and love. 

It is the same thing if you are in a romantic relationship. For many people who have been in a relationship for a long period of time, the 'Rose Colored Glasses' begin to fade, and they begin to notice and focus on the qualities that they find frustrating or annoying. As they notice a few, they begin to notice more, then those qualities seem to grow and become very exaggerated. Now the person, all of a sudden, appears to be completely intolerable and unattractive and very often they stay together, miserable and unhappy, or the relationship ends. 

The beginning of most romantic relationships is the opposite of what I just described. Both people in the relationship are noticing what they like about the other person, and the more they focus on those positive and attractive qualities, the more they notice, then those qualities seem to grow and be exaggerated. Because they are making the choice to focus on the positive qualities of the other person, they see him or her as the most amazing person in the world, and they fall in love with that person. 

We can always make that choice to focus on the positive qualities of another person. If you have been in a romantic relationship for a very long time and you begin to notice yourself focusing on the qualities that frustrate or annoy you, catch yourself and make a different choice to focus on what you love about them and their positive qualities and attributes. Whatever you focus on expands. 

We have seen it many times where two siblings, who are close to the same age, both grow up in an abusive environment. Each sibling will grow up to experience very different realities, one very positive and the other may be very negative. Each sibling, in this situation, experienced very different outcomes, because they made different choices of their perception. It is your perception that creates your reality. 

Your perception creates your reality, not only with people, but also with how you perceive situations and circumstances. No matter what the situation is, it is up to you how you choose to perceive the situation. There are both negative and positive aspects in all circumstances, even when the circumstances appear to be horrible. It is up to us to find the positive and focus on that part of the equation. The reality of any situation or circumstance in your life will be determined by your perception. 

The same goes for places. Your perception of any particular place will become the reality of that place. You can take two people and have them stand right next to each other at the same place, looking at the same things and they may have completely different experiences at that same exact place. They have different experiences because they are each choosing to have different perceptions. 

The most important thing to realize is that our perception is always a choice, we can stop at any moment and choose to have a different view of things. You have the power to create your reality to be whatever you choose, by choosing the way you perceive your reality. 

Decorate your own soul...!!

Smile...Dream...laugh...Stay Blessed..!!

Let your words heal, and not wound..!!

Which are you...?? Carrots, Eggs or Coffee...??

A beautiful story.. :)

Grandmother Says…Carrots, Eggs, or Coffee; 

“Which are you?”

A young woman went to her grandmother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved a new one arose.

Her grandmother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs and the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her granddaughter, she asked, “Tell me what do you see?”

“Carrots, eggs, and coffee,” she replied.

She brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they got soft.She then asked her to take an egg and break it.

After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard-boiled egg.

Finally, she asked her to sip the coffee. The granddaughter smiled, as she tasted its rich aroma. The granddaughter then asked. “What’s the point,grandmother?”

Her grandmother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity–boiling water–but each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard and unrelenting. However after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior. But, after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water they had changed the water.

“Which are you?” she asked her granddaughter.

“When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean?”

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity, do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?

Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.

When the hours are the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate to another level?

— AUTHOR UNKNOWN

It’s Just the Way We are…!!

We hold on to things the tightest, when we are forced to let them go—

   We always want things a certain way, when we know can't be so.

Dreams always last the longest, when they are furthest from our reach—

   And the lessons we can learn the most from, are often the very ones we teach.

The grass is always the greenest, when it lies on the other side—

   And the truths we preach to others are often those we can't abide.

We spend our time trying to see things, when perspective is one thing we lack—

   And we never appreciate what we've got, until we can't get it back.

We expect the whole world to give us a break, and yet ironically we'll find—

   That when others come asking us the same, we tell them they're out of their mind.

We tell everyone what's wrong with this world, and we do nothing to make it right—

   We complain about families falling apart, and yet do nothing to keep them tight.

We preach about loving our neighbors, and we teach children right from wrong—

   But we never set good examples for them, when real chances come along.

We complain about not having enough time in our lives, to do what we must do—

   Yet if we were given more hours in the day, we'd use up all that, too.

We desire to be close to all those we love, yet all too often look from afar—

   And when it comes to the truth do we want to change, or remain forever as we are?

" Only put off until tomorrow what you are willing to die having left undone" - Pablo Picasso

I ll make it to tomorrow...!

 Sometime of some day I'll be able to look back on today and be grateful for being strong..... 

But now, I'm just trying to keep my strength up to make it to tomorrow...:)

A Mistake..!!

See mistake just as a mistake not as my or his mistake                                                                 because My brings guilt and His brings anger. 

Only acceptance brings some improvement..!! :)

Turn ur Wounds into Wisdom..!!

Joy in life...

We search so much for the right choices, the right paths to walk, the right time, the right  reasons, and the right person.

Think about It...Do we need to search always what is right for us... No Not exactly....

Life isn't about searching for the "Right" things and people all the time..

It's also about letting the unexpected happen and finding joy in things and people we never searched for..:)

Take it on Next Chapter now..!!

A therapy that never fails...!!

Let someone help you unpack ..!!

Delight in every moment of the day..!!

Be..!!

If it’s still in your mind, it’s worth taking the risk...!!

Tough..but True...!!!

In a Moment..!!

 “A man is never the same for long. He is continually changing. He seldom remains the same even for half an hour.”

Be you, and be ok with it..!

Its You who do it...!!

No one can ruin your day (without your permission). Most people will be about as happy (as they decide to be). Others can stop you temporarily (but only you can do it permanently). Whatever you are willing to out up with (is exactly what you will have). Success stops (when you do). When your ship comes in (make sure you are willing to unload it). You will never (have it all together). Life is a journey (not a destination. Enjoy the trip!). The biggest lie on the planet (“When I get what I want, I’ll be happy). The best way to escape (your problem is to solve it). I've leaned that ultimately (takers lose and givers win). Life’s precious moments (don’t have value, unless they are shared). If you don’t start (it’s certain you won’t arrive). We often fear the thing (we want the most). Yesterday was the deadline (for all complaints). Look for opportunities (not guarantees). Life is what’s coming (not what was). Success is getting up (one more time). Now is the most interesting (time of all). When things go wrong (don’t go with them). Sometimes, the majority only means (that all the fools are on the same side). A person who asks questions (might be a fool for five minutes, but a person who doesn't ask, is a fool forever). A best friend is like a four leaf clover (hard to find, and lucky to have). I don’t have to attend (every argument I’m invited to). Our eyes are placed in front (because it is more important to look ahead than behind).

Yes, it is..

 

No matter how many times you've blown it, God’s grace is bigger than your mistakes and His plans for you are perfect.

A heartbreak is a blessing from God. It’s just His way of letting you realize He saved you from the wrong one.